Seoul Diaries – personal stories

So, in this part of the Seoul Diaries, I’ll be talking about my personal experiences and general tips that could help you if you’re planning on traveling to South Korea. I shared a list of the most popular must-see spots and sights in another post, so make sure to check it out too. Let’s get right into it!


Before I left Belgium, I tried to already teach myself some Korean. Korean shows became my guilty pleasure for the past few years, and I also just really loved the language and how it sounded. I also noticed that locals love to see you put in an effort to speak Korean instead of English. Besides that, it also just shows respect for their culture. Many people know English, which can be very helpful, but some basic knowledge about the Korean language will help you get around. I started studying Korean myself, thanks to this website

Since I was going to be a student for 5 months, I had to apply for a visa. Obviously, you will also need an international passport. I applied for an international driver’s license in my hometown too, just in case. Besides that, don’t forget about getting some Korean Won cash from your local bank and a Mastercard (or some other kind) that assures you to make international payments. 

So, me and my roommate took a bus from Ghent to Amsterdam, because there are direct flights to Seoul from there. The flight went great since I am still alive – yay. Yes, 14 hours in one go is long, but you sleep, you watch some shows, you listen to music, you read, they serve u food, you sleep some more cause doing nothing is exhausting. And suddenly, you’re the last hour in. You land, collect your luggage, and place your first steps on Korean land. But then it’s time to get real because suddenly you’re like “Um, so what now”. The next steps you should figure out and can figure out at the airport are getting a SIM card and a T-money card. I recommend buying a short-term SIM card, cause they are ridiculously overpriced. You can find more affordable and long-term ones around the city. A lot of the exchange students – including myself – bought ours at ‘Chingu Mobile’. Buying a T-money card is essential: it’s a card that you can put money on (you can load your card at every metro station or 24/7 store like GS25 and Seven Eleven) and gives you the ability to make different payments such as bus fares (check in and out when taking a bus), subway fares, taxi cabs, and even groceries at those 24/7 stores. Make sure you have Kakao Map and Papago downloaded on your phone to get around and help you get around. Kakao Taxi could also come in handy, it’s the Korean version of Uber. I believe the cheapest way to get to Seoul is by train/subway. Me and my roommate though took a cab, because of our luggage, we could split the costs, and because we literally just had no other clue.

During my first weeks in Seoul, I was just focusing on trying to settle and trying different things out. I visited some of the popular attractions, strolled around Myeong-dong (which I did a lot during the semester), met international friends, visited museums, and took lots of photos. I became a regular at a coffee shop near my apartment, called Bresh Avenue. I experienced the nightlife in Hongdae and Itaewon and tasted Korean soju for the first time. I attended my first classes and found out I had a lot of similar ones with Rebecca, another ARMY so we hit it off immediately.

Here’s what I understand from the Korean school system: attendance during classes is required to pass the course; your score (for projects and exams) is based on your ranking. This means it’s based on your performance compared to that of other students. For example, the top 5-10% of the class will get an A, the following 30% a B, etc. The outcome is that you might get a 13/20 which will result in an A for one subject (because most scored lower), while it might only be a B- in another (because most scored higher). Every school has its own school festival at the beginning of the semester with lots of free performances. I got to see BIBI, Be Why, and StayC, but also many talented students! 

October was such a rollercoaster. Went to Busan for a weekend with some friends! I’ll make a separate post for the Busan trip. What else did I do in October? Hmm. Well, we rented a car with some friends and I drove us to Busan at 4 a.m (even though I just came back from the other Busan trip 5 days before that) for the FREAKING BTS YET TO COME CONCERT. **screaming** I’m still in disbelief.

I did not have tickets though, but one of my friends (Rebecca) did. I stayed next to the stadium with the others (Lya, Maria & Michelle), so I did not really see them, but just to hear their voices live is literally insane. It feels so surreal thinking back, it’s like a dream, I could cry. The whole day was so wholesome. It’s one of my best memories. The post-concert phase felt weird though. We could not get over it, yet we did feel kind of ’empty’. Anyway, Rebecca and I really did not know how to deal with it the day after the concert, so we just randomly decided to go to the Apple store and impulsively buy a new phone. Mid-terms were coming up, so we all met up at Bresh often to study together. Rebecca and I basically survived on Red Bull (sugarfree is a smash and lowkey better than the original one), she in combination with a snicker, me with a white bueno. The staff at Bresh is starting to know us. We always grab the same food: cheese buns. It’s pretty funny, because we couldn’t find them once, and they knew we were searching for them. One of the staff literally came from behind the counter with the freshly baked ones for us. I’m sobbing. I visited the Proof Exhibition at Hybe Insight with Michelle, which made us tear up. I cried my eyes out because of Jin’s The Astronaut. Enjoying the fall while strolling through new neighborhoods in the city. We all went to a Halloween party in fancy Gangnam. The day after, the terrible Halloween tragedy happened in Itaewon. I didn’t know any of the victims, but it just messes with your head. The whole city was mourning for a week.

Fall, fall, fall! Colored leaves are covering the ground everywhere. Seoul Forest is very peaceful. Rented hanboks (traditional clothing, you find them at different places near the palace) to visit Gyeongbokgung Palace with Rebecca, Michelle, and my roommate. More parties, more museums. We’re still a mess because of the concert, or maybe we are just a mess by nature. Took a stroll through Haneul Park. It’s famous for the purple-pinkish grass in October, but by the time I went, that was not the case anymore lol. Still worth visiting! Christmas decorations are starting to light up the city. Rented a car again for another day trip and more BTS stuff, which I will cover in another post.

Rebecca, Michelle, and I were grabbing dinner at the BTS trainee restaurant when we met the nicest people. They were four older couples who were celebrating a birthday. I will be referring to them as our ‘Korean parents’ because that’s really how we felt. We started talking about BTS and got along so well. They shared their cake with us, we took photos, started a group chat, and made plans to meet up again. Having the most fun at Lotte World and going to the observatory at Lotte Tower. I also hadn’t booked my return flight until now, because I wanted to see how I felt.

December consisted of finals and emotions. First snow! I also got my first tattoo. Strolled around Ihwa-dong and Bukchon hanok village. Visiting Hybe Insight again, because there’s no place like home. We met up with our Korean parents twice this month! I adore them. They are so supportive and positive. We always bring them a gift, since they keep treating us to food. People started to leave once the semester ended. So I was dealing with many goodbyes and got a little homesick since they were all going home to spend the holidays with their families. Strolling around the city solo, such as visiting Seoullo (Seoul Road, was not that impressive during winter though). Changing apartments since my roommate left. I experienced sort of a scam but figured it out on my own. Celebrated Maria’s birthday and spent Christmas with international friends. Michelle and I went to a painting cafe. New Year’s Eve with Michelle and Rebecca. God bless all the people I’ve met.


I tried to keep it short. If you want to hear more, something is unclear, or you still have questions left, feel free to let me know (in the comments, through mail, or DM on Instagram) and I will do my best.

With love,

Lara

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